fucking nice

I agree it’s not ideal to say fuck on the tennis court, even if it is directed at yourself. But  especially not when the tennis court is at school. I know there is no need to swear and I could have said fooey as was suggested, but I didn’t. I do know it is a legacy left from a lifetime in advertising where swearing was everyday. And no, not to insult, or hurt but simply to explain, share, show strong emotion. Among adults. That is fucking awesome means so much more than that is awesome, or that is so awesome or that is very awesome. Or even that is bloody awesome. Everyone understands. I agree that some times it is just not ideal. But please whatever you do, don’t judge me by how I speak, but rather by who I am and how I behave. I am not frightened of words, but I am frightened of people who hide behind ‘nice’ words and judgements. I know awful people who never swear. I know fabulous compassionate kind people who swear. It is never meant to disrespect anyone, because for me it is just an adjective, a very descriptive word. But just a word. And yes, a habit. But, I could think of worse habits to have.

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    Kim Logan, Louise Fletcher and 6 others like this.

    Bryan Cawood Looks like Noosa just got a little small….whoever is judging you….fuckem! Life is way to short to spend time with people like that. Don’t judge them back…just move on.
    May 14 at 3:43pm · like · 2

    Susie Pitts Who judged? Did you get a dirty look from the new girl? xx
    May 14 at 4:03pm · like · 1

    Nicola Heppell We love you for who you are so don’t ever change. I have never met anyone who swears quite a elegantly as you! Xxxxxx
    May 14 at 4:08pm · like · 3

    Nicola Heppell Oops meant to read “as”
    May 14 at 4:09pm · Like

    Sameeha Muthen Hahaha, I agree 100% with Bryan fuckem. you know the person you are a few fucks here and there does not define who you are x
    May 14 at 4:26pm via mobile ·like · 1

    Lianne Cawood No Susie, my faux pas this am just got me thinking I wonder what the new girls thinks and then about all the askew glances and dismissive comments and stunned silences I’ve got over the past four years or so …. and how tired I am of apologising for me etc etc. And thanks Nicola, and don;t think there’s any chance of that!!! Love you two madly. xx
    May 14 at 5:05pm · Like · 1

    Cathy Raggett A universal word understood by everyone that leaves no doubt as to your feeling about something. One of my favourites!!!
    May 14 at 5:08pm · like · 2

    Janine Daniels Fuck, I love you xxx
    May 14 at 9:05pm via mobile · like · 2

    Samantha Yates Schroeder I fucking agree with all of the above…. Speak freely beautiful lady.. Xxx
    May 14 at 9:08pm via mobile · like · 2

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